I need some help....What should i do?

Divorce may be frowned upon - but this is your life. Do you want to live like this for the next 40, 50, 60 years? Do you want to bring children up in this environment? Its completely backwards to allow the guy to go sleep around with impunity while the woman is expected to sit quitely at home allong this to go on and have his chatt ready when he gets home. He is not the only fish in the sea. My wife was in the same situation - only one day (about six months into it) he decided to leave. She thought the world was ending - but things got better and we found each other about year later and have been very happily married for nearly 4 years. You desrve better - do you have an aunt or uncle that is more open minded that you can talk to? Someone who you can get to explain your situation to the rest of the family ? Take care!